14 Common Misconceptions About Female Friendships That Are Simply Not True
You’ve probably come across the tired stereotypes about female friendships throughout your life. People say they are shallow, fake, or even overly dramatic. But those clichés couldn’t be further from the truth! Female friendships are often some of the most supportive, deep, and empowering connections out there. That is why it’s time to ditch the media-driven myths and celebrate the incredible bonds that help us through life’s toughest moments. We want to shine some light on what these friendships are really all about!
Constantly Jealous
Many women experience feelings of comparison throughout their lives. For instance, when their best friend lands the perfect job opportunity or takes a bold leap to move to Bali, it can spark such feelings. However, it’s important to note that not all women feel this way. Most women are genuinely happy for their friends’ successes and appreciate the hard work that has led to a better life.
Toilet Together
Why do women always go to the toilet together? Men have tried to come up with an answer for years, but they will never get it! To clarify for all men reading this, there is no particular reason for women to do so if not to help each other, for instance, by holding each other’s purses or continuing an interesting conversation started outside of the toilet.
They Are Superficial
While some female (and male!) friendships are superficial, not all are. Some women are truly committed and would not think twice before taking a plane and flying for hours only to help their best friends in times of need. Whether it’s a tough breakup, troubles at work, or dealing with mental health, real good friends know they can always count on each other no matter what.
No Privacy
Men often believe their partner’s best friends know all the details of their relationship. While women tend to talk more about this than men, most girls keep certain parts private out of respect for their partners. This is particularly true if you met your girlfriend’s best friends before starting to date her. So, there is no need to worry too much!
It’s All About The Drama
Most women don’t like drama and will feel incredibly miserable after an argument with their best friends. Unlike fighting with our partners, which can be relatively common, true female friends rarely have serious arguments as they tend to be more understanding and forgiving of each other. This means that it can be extremely hard for them to deal with it when they do fight.
It’s Only About Talking
Yes, women love to talk! This is why when they meet, they often do so in a cafe or at each other’s houses to chit-chat about work, relationships, or other random topics. However, this is not the only activity women like to share. Many friends love to hike together, watch movies, or even party! While women may enjoy talking more than men, this doesn’t mean it’s their only activity.
They Love Revenge
Years of rom-coms and girlish movies have taught us that women love revenge. Many films show groups of women planning the perfect revenge against the ‘bad girl’ who stole someone’s partner, but this is rarely the case. Mature women prefer to face problems and discuss whatever happened instead of opting for ridiculous plans to get revenge.
It’s All About Girlish Activities
When women are not talking or planning revenge, they are often depicted painting their nails, doing each other make-up, shopping, and so on. As always, some women love these activities, but surely not all. We can assure you that many of us simply love to spend time playing board games or enjoy hobbies often considered ‘masculine’, such as playing video games.
They Hate The Same People
Just because one of our friends can’t stand someone doesn’t mean we should avoid this person. Most women have the maturity to understand that we are all different. While a girl may find a guy obnoxious, this doesn’t mean she will force all her friends to stop talking to this person. While some women may adopt this behavior, most find it childish.
They Are Always In Contact
Women are not always in contact, and when real friendship is present, there is truly no problem with this. No, we don’t call each other five times a day. At least, most of us don’t. Women friends, especially those living in different countries, may even spend months without talking to each other without compromising their relationship.
Gossip
Gossip is another common activity often associated with groups of women. While some of us may enjoy chit-chatting about the latest news concerning our common friends, it doesn’t mean this is our only activity when together. We often have way too much to discuss when talking about our lives to think the ones of others, and some women refuse to gossip entirely as they think it’s amoral.
Competitiveness Over Men
It is not uncommon for female friends to have completely different tastes in men. If one likes bad boys, the other is often into good guys. If one tends to date older men, the other will probably prefer younger ones. This is why female friends rarely fight over guys. Even when thinking a guy is cute, they often prefer to prioritize their friendship instead of losing their best friend because of a random dude!
Friendships That Exclude Others
The stereotype of cliquey female friendships often stems from high school dramas that portray women as exclusive and unwelcoming. This myth ignores the reality that many female friendships are inclusive and supportive, welcoming people from diverse backgrounds and interests. While close-knit groups naturally form, they are rarely about exclusion and more about shared experiences and mutual understanding.
Friendships End With Marriage
It’s a common misconception that female friendships fade away after marriage. Strong friendships are built to last through all stages of life! While marriage does bring new priorities and responsibilities, it doesn’t mean women stop needing or valuing their close friends. In fact, the opposite is often true and these female relationships often grow deeper as friends support each other through marriage, parenthood, and other life changes. True friendships adapt, proving that love and partnership don’t replace the female bond.
