16 Pointless Things Our Parents Taught Us That Were a Waste of Time
We all know that our parents likely tried their best to raise us the right way. They tried to impart important lessons and teach us the skills we would need to get through life. But all parents make mistakes and teaching us these things were seriously pointless. These lessons are simply better off forgotten. Sorry, mom and dad, but you wasted your time when you taught me these things.
Work Worry
In our parents’ generation, job stability was paramount. The ideal career path involved landing a secure job with a reputable company and staying there until retirement. With the increasing popularity of remote work, the gig economy, and frequent industry shifts, the average person changes jobs several times throughout their career. Flexibility, adaptability, and continuous learning are more valuable than long-term job security.
College Craze
Although pursuing a college education offers valuable learning experiences and potential opportunities, it’s no longer the sole route to success. In today’s world, many successful individuals have thrived through alternative paths like vocational training, self-teaching, online courses, and entrepreneurship. It is time to rethink that college is the only path to success; skills and experience often hold more weight than degrees.
Stranger Danger
Parents often tell us to avoid talking to strangers for safety reasons; while this advice is crucial for young children, as adults, interacting with new people is essential. Networking and socializing can lead to personal and professional growth, and seeking knowledge online has become an invaluable asset. In a connected world, building relationships with strangers can open doors to new opportunities.
Homeownership Hype
Buy a house as soon as possible; homeownership signifies stability and success. However, with rising property prices and changing lifestyles, rent is the new buy and can be a more practical choice for many. Flexibility, reduced maintenance costs, and the ability to relocate quickly are significant benefits of renting in today’s dynamic world.
Game On
Don’t play video games; they are a waste of time. Video games were often viewed as mere distractions, but are they for real? In recent years, the gaming industry has evolved significantly. Gaming can enhance cognitive skills, teamwork, and problem-solving abilities. Moreover, game development, eSports, and streaming careers are now viable and lucrative.
Authority is Everything
Authority is not always proper; while respecting it is crucial, blind obedience is not always beneficial. Critical thinking and questioning are essential skills in today’s world. Healthy skepticism and the ability to challenge the status quo can drive innovation and progress. This is especially important in today’s world, where fakes news are incredible common.
Happily Ever After
Marriage and parenthood were once considered essential milestones of adulthood, and we were told to get married and have children. However, societal norms have shifted, and many people now choose to remain single, child-free, or delay these decisions. Personal fulfillment and happiness no longer hinge on adhering to traditional family structures.
Privacy Paradox
Privacy was paramount, and sharing personal struggles was often frowned upon; there was greater acceptance and encouragement for diverse lifestyles and open discussions about personal struggles. Today, openness about mental health and personal challenges is encouraged, and these matters are highlighted to seek help.
Sharing experiences can foster connections, provide support, and reduce stigma around issues like depression and anxiety.
Money Talks
While it is true that money alone does not guarantee happiness, financial stability significantly contributes to overall well-being. The stress of economic insecurity can be debilitating; managing money wisely and striving for financial independence can enhance the quality of life. The global economy has shifted towards knowledge-based and gig economies.
Tears and Triumphs
Gender norms have evolved, and expressing emotions is no longer a weakness. Encouraging emotional expression in all genders promotes better mental health and healthier relationships. Societal norms regarding gender roles and relationship dynamics have shifted over time; vulnerability is a strength, not a flaw. So stop judging emotions on whether they are positive or negative.
Rule Breaker
Rules provide structure, but not all are just or relevant; one cannot always follow them. These outdated teachings reflect a different era’s realities and priorities. Learning when to challenge or bypass outdated or unfair regulations or traditions is crucial. Innovation emerges from thinking outside the box and not strictly adhering to conventional wisdom.
Balance is Key
The customer is always right mantra emphasizes customer satisfaction above all else. However, if you ever worked with clients, you know the customer is not always right. This approach can lead to burnout and mistreatment of employees. Balancing customer needs with employee well-being creates a healthier, more sustainable business environment.
Learn to Cook
While cooking can be a fun pastime, and most people really should learn how to cook one or two dishes, it is no longer a necessary life skill. Almost every restaurant now offers delivery, and takeout is so convenient and quick. Plus, ordering food can often be less expensive than creating an entire meal from scratch. While your parents may have taught you that learning to be a great chef is important, it really isn’t all that necessary in today’s world.
Start a Family
Many parents idolize the idea of having a family. We should all grow up, meet someone we love, get married, and have children. This is no longer the norm. Many very successful, happy people are single or married without children. A family is not the only route a person can take, and our global culture is shifting away from the traditional family path.
Save It For Later
Old generations used to keep piles of useless things because ‘you never know.’ From pieces of string to old wallets nobody would ever want to use and tons and tons of outdated clothes, the new generations have realized how important it is to declutter and keep your house minimalistic. Always remember, a crowded house is a sign of a crowded mind.
Screen Time is Bad
Did you use them? Did your parents ever tell you that screens are bad and you should never use them? Lots of parents were on that bandwagon and while watching a screen too much may not be the best thing, they also aren’t terrible. Screens can be a gateway to learning, creativity, and connection, offering educational tools, artistic platforms, and opportunities to stay in touch with loved ones. It’s not the screen itself that’s harmful; it’s how we use it. If we practice moderation and mindfulness, screens can be a very good thing!
While our parents’ advice was well-intentioned and suited to their times, adapting to the current realities is essential. Reflecting on these outdated teachings allows us to appreciate our parents’ wisdom while recognizing the need to evolve and adapt our approaches to life. By doing so, we can honor our parents’ intentions while forging paths that reflect our time’s unique demands and opportunities.
This article was originally published at WMN Lives.
